As every movie including a wedding will tell you some Bridal Parties can get out of hand, that may not be your style or your ideal party with your closest friends. Making those expectations clear about the party that they are throwing on your behalf is important, just because you are not planning the party does not mean you cannot express your expectations and boundaries for this party, it is, after all, about you. When asking your trusted friend or Maid of Honor to plan this event for you, use that time to set out what you are hoping to get out of this experience and some things or activities that might be important to you to be incorporated.